Welcome to November! The ordiversary party is being kicked off by RevGals board member Jemma Allen. The board got to meet in person last week, and spending time with Jemma on the beach and in the meeting room was a delight…I hope you enjoy getting to know her virtually, and then sharing your own November Ordiversary stories and celebrations!

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I was baptised by immersion as a 14 year old in a fairly traditional Anglican church (it caused a bit of a stir because ‘decently and in order’ had primarily meant sprinkling babies). As I emerged from the water wearing my choir robe with sinkers sewn into the hem (for modesty’s sake) I had a profound sense of knowing that one day I would stand behind the altar and preside at the Eucharist. I dismissed it pretty quickly – I thought I was going to be a librarian or an accountant.

At nineteen I preached at a friend’s installation as the Diocesan Youth Worker. I was moving out of the Diocese the next day to go to University (to study Women’s and Gender Studies), so I preached boldly and by implication that Bishops ought to spend more time considering themselves tax collectors and sinners! When the Archbishop called me into the office after the service I was expecting a reprimand – instead he asked me whether I was open to exploring my vocation to ordination!

I was ordained deacon in December 1998, and then at age 25 ordained priest in the Anglican Church in Aotearoa, New Zealand and Polynesia at the Cathedral of St Peter, in Hamilton, New Zealand on the 27th of November, 1999. Three of us were ordained priest that day and we arranged ourselves so that the second youngest was ordained first – he got to be the youngest priest in the country for a brief moment. Then I was ordained – I was the youngest priest in the country for several years. Then an older woman was ordained – she got to be the newest priest in the country! In some ways it was completely trivial, but it was also a way of expressing the friendship that had grown in our formation.

Your ministry has been expressed in a variety of contexts and forms—tell us a bit about your experiences of moving between these places and types of calling and what has been consistent for you as a priest in the midst of all those changes over the years?

I have been a parish-based priest with responsibility for ministry with children and their families twice, the Ecumenical Chaplain at the University of Waikato, the Co-Pastor of the Congregation of the Good Shepherd in Beijing, China and currently my ministry is expressed as a counsellor and spiritual director in Auckland, New Zealand and working on my PhD in counselling.

In all of those roles at the heart of my ministry is presence and hospitality. Showing up and paying attention matters. And when we can embody hospitality in the fullest sense – welcoming all of a person – the parts of a person that are ‘presentable’ and those parts that are hurting or fearful or wounded or angry, then I think we are doing holy work.

How do you keep yourself healthy (mentally/physically/emotionally/spiritually) in ministry?

Staying healthy for me involves eating plants, knitting shawls, practicing yoga and loving (and walking) dogs. I am also part of a denomination that requires clergy to go to spiritual direction and supervision (the pastoral/clinical kind with a trained supervisor, outside of your ministry setting, to be seen monthly usually). Those life-long practices are also essential to the sustainability of ministry for me. I also believe in the value of personal counselling/therapy when needed and am grateful for my own experiences of therapy that have enlarged my capacity for mental and emotional health.

What advice would you give to those being ordained now?

We can be well-trained, well-formed, well-prepared, but there is always a gap between that state and what we will need to live the life of ministry. I am grateful for that gap – it helps us lean into the grace of ordination. If we could do it, be it already what need would we have for grace? My best advice is to trust the grace of ordination which, after all, is the grace of our loving and gracious God.

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Thanks Jemma!

How about you? Were you ordained in November? Share your ordination stories, your advice to new ordinands, and how you keep healthy in ministry in the comments!


Teri Peterson is a minister in the Church of Scotland. She just returned from the board meeting in sunny Southern California and is readjusting to the scottish weather, and the cat is helping by refusing to leave her lap. She is co-author of Who’s Got Time: spirituality for a busy generation, a board member of RevGalBlogPals, and a contributor to There’s A Woman in the Pulpit.


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5 thoughts on “Ordiversary party: November

  1. Ordained ministry was a second career for me so I was not ordained until 25 years ago on November 5th. What a wonderful day. I retired for the second time two years ago. Do we ever really retire from the ministry?
    So, what has happened in the past 25 years? I was a minister of various churches and then felt the call to chaplaincy. I did my CPE internship, residencies and fellowship. I spent most of my chaplaincy years in pediatrics which many people can’t understand why I enjoyed it so.
    Often, people ask me if I didn’t find it heartbreaking? There were great times and sad times like in any ministry. I was privileged to be with children who got well and those who would carry chronic illness for years. Then, there were the wise “old souls” who only had months or short lives here on earth. The families, staff, and volunteers I worked with will always be part of my heart of memories. I have officiated plenty of Baptisms and funerals for patients.
    Now, I get to officiate a wedding. One of my former patients has invited me to come 1200 miles to officiate at her wedding in December. Ah, the rewards of ministry.

    My one suggestion is that every student studying to become a clergy person needs to complete at least one unit of clinical pastoral education. One of the assets of CPE is that you become liberated from “growing up tapes” that might keep you from becoming an effective clergy. Yes, CPE can be lots of work and challenging. However, without it I don’t think my ministry would have been as helpful to others and my own spiritual growth.

    Thanks for reading my story. This 25th ordination anniversary is special also because we celebrated my husband’s 7 month anniversary with new lungs.

    Be peace and live life,
    Louise Tallman

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  2. I was ordained on November 13, 2013. I had just celebrated my 50th birthday that September. I had spent much of my adult life complaining about my jobs and dreaming of having a job that I loved. I’m thankful to have that job I love now, and humbled to find that it’s so much harder than I ever imagined. I still feel like I’m just getting started and have so much more to learn. Thank you for this online community. It has been a wonderful encouragement for me!

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  3. Mkrabbe, Congratulations on your 6 th ordination anniversary. Even at my young age of 74 , I value what I have learned and am excited to learn more and more each day. That, I think, is one of the big differences between surviving and living our lives. May you celebrate each day in some way or another. Peace, Louise

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